Replies to '08/05 Fat Abusers'

Quote From: lost1234

I get so mad at fat abusers. I am married to one. I haven't been fat until i injured a back injury 3 years ago and then had a brother whom commited suicide. I have put on 100 pounds plus and now am struggling to loose the weight. It is very hard and when stupid people call us fat slobs and other mean and cruel names, it just makes it worse. I know from experience. My husband used to be ignorant in this department, until i almost died, due to complications of pneumonia. People can change, as he has. He said he never knew why he said those things, but that he regrets every word ever issued in ignorance. I am slowly loosing the weight and i feel very sorry for people who are made fun of. It hurts and can really traumatize someone in ways a person could never know. I hope that these people can learn that fat people are not bad, nor are they slobs. Some people do not try to loose the weight, but in some cases such as mine alot of it was due to meds and bed rest for a long time and then depression sank in. I honestly didin't know i had gotten so big until i finally looked in a mirror and was shocked and sick with myself for letting it get this far. I was always skinny. So beleive me it hurts. I have indured insults in public places and in front of my kids. People need to learn to keep their mean comments to themselves. If you don't like the way a person looks, don't look. and if you cannot love them anymore, do not threaten to leave just leave as  you aren't helping threm in any way and they would probably do better without you anyway. I  hope dr. phil gets people on this show to see  how dumb they can really be....    

Quote From: lost1234

I get so mad at fat abusers. I am married to one. I haven't been fat until i injured a back injury 3 years ago and then had a brother whom commited suicide. I have put on 100 pounds plus and now am struggling to loose the weight. It is very hard and when stupid people call us fat slobs and other mean and cruel names, it just makes it worse. I know from experience. My husband used to be ignorant in this department, until i almost died, due to complications of pneumonia. People can change, as he has. He said he never knew why he said those things, but that he regrets every word ever issued in ignorance. I am slowly loosing the weight and i feel very sorry for people who are made fun of. It hurts and can really traumatize someone in ways a person could never know. I hope that these people can learn that fat people are not bad, nor are they slobs. Some people do not try to loose the weight, but in some cases such as mine alot of it was due to meds and bed rest for a long time and then depression sank in. I honestly didin't know i had gotten so big until i finally looked in a mirror and was shocked and sick with myself for letting it get this far. I was always skinny. So beleive me it hurts. I have indured insults in public places and in front of my kids. People need to learn to keep their mean comments to themselves. If you don't like the way a person looks, don't look. and if you cannot love them anymore, do not threaten to leave just leave as  you aren't helping threm in any way and they would probably do better without you anyway. I  hope dr. phil gets people on this show to see  how dumb they can really be....