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April 8, 2008, 5:36 am PDT

Interesting...

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I'm glad the doctors are going to talk about this subject. I think the growing poularity of breast augmentation is shocking. How is it different from the foot-binding Chinese women had done in the 19th Century or the African tribal women with lip plates and neck rings? Unless women are getting implants for medical reasons after mastectomys, it's exactly the same!

[bThese women are volunteering to have their chests cut open and foreign devices implanted -- for the sole reason of pleasing the sexual fetishes of men. [/b


They will tell you that they're doing it for themselves but that's obviously untrue. Would they be getting implants if they lived on a deserted island? Men once considered large breasts unattractive, as evidenced by the old paintings in which women were plump but had apple sized breasts. Somewhere along the line big breasts became fashionable in the world of pornography and now the average high-school girl considers herself unworthy as a lust object until she goes through this surgery.

It's not in the same area as make-up and hair coloring because those things are inexpensive and neither permanent nor dangerous. Have some pride, women! If you can't get a man to like you without having surgical alterations to your body then he isn't worth having!

 

Just my opinion, but I don't think there's anything wrong with it as long as youre doing it for yourself and not trying to just to attract someone.  There are things like Body Dysmorphic Disorder where they obsess about certain parts of the body and that could lead to an addiction to plastic surgery.  Then there are people who don't obsess, but if they were on a deserted island, they would still get the surgery.  I used to take care of some women who had work done (face lifts, tummy tucks), and they looked amazing for their age.  There are places where I wouldn't mind having lipo'd because even at my thinnest in high school, that "fluff" was still there in that annoying place.

 

Youre right about the social acceptance though, and I think a lot of women do it for that reason alone, which is sad.  If small breasts suddenly was the popular thing, I wonder how many women would have their implants taken out?  Would women still get augmentation- I'm pretty sure.  There are women who get "downsized" now because of back problems- as long as the current fad doesn't determine the permanent changes that you make.  I agree with that.

 
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April 8, 2008, 7:31 am PDT

Alien Germs

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I'm glad the doctors are going to talk about this subject. I think the growing poularity of breast augmentation is shocking. How is it different from the foot-binding Chinese women had done in the 19th Century or the African tribal women with lip plates and neck rings? Unless women are getting implants for medical reasons after mastectomys, it's exactly the same!

[bThese women are volunteering to have their chests cut open and foreign devices implanted -- for the sole reason of pleasing the sexual fetishes of men. [/b


They will tell you that they're doing it for themselves but that's obviously untrue. Would they be getting implants if they lived on a deserted island? Men once considered large breasts unattractive, as evidenced by the old paintings in which women were plump but had apple sized breasts. Somewhere along the line big breasts became fashionable in the world of pornography and now the average high-school girl considers herself unworthy as a lust object until she goes through this surgery.

It's not in the same area as make-up and hair coloring because those things are inexpensive and neither permanent nor dangerous. Have some pride, women! If you can't get a man to like you without having surgical alterations to your body then he isn't worth having!
 Hasn't anybody on the show seen The Day the Earth Stood Still?  Earth had just gave up hope when the aliens started dying.  What killed them?  GERMS!  Germs that the earthling had anti-bodies to fight them.  The aliens had not devoloped those anti-bodies.  If the child grows up in a germ-free home how is she going to react to the outside world?  Why wasn't that mentioned?
 
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April 9, 2008, 12:50 pm PDT

You are precisely wrong because...

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I'm glad the doctors are going to talk about this subject. I think the growing poularity of breast augmentation is shocking. How is it different from the foot-binding Chinese women had done in the 19th Century or the African tribal women with lip plates and neck rings? Unless women are getting implants for medical reasons after mastectomys, it's exactly the same!

[bThese women are volunteering to have their chests cut open and foreign devices implanted -- for the sole reason of pleasing the sexual fetishes of men. [/b


They will tell you that they're doing it for themselves but that's obviously untrue. Would they be getting implants if they lived on a deserted island? Men once considered large breasts unattractive, as evidenced by the old paintings in which women were plump but had apple sized breasts. Somewhere along the line big breasts became fashionable in the world of pornography and now the average high-school girl considers herself unworthy as a lust object until she goes through this surgery.

It's not in the same area as make-up and hair coloring because those things are inexpensive and neither permanent nor dangerous. Have some pride, women! If you can't get a man to like you without having surgical alterations to your body then he isn't worth having!
...foot-binding, for example, was forced onto Chinese women ages ago. You said it yourself..."women are volunteering"...but not just for men. Many women probably do want to have the surgery because of the way it makes them feel. I personally don't favor breast implants that are entirely unnecessary except for vanity BUT you need to get over it, it's the individual woman's choice, not yours.
 
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July 25, 2008, 8:39 am PDT

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I'm glad the doctors are going to talk about this subject. I think the growing poularity of breast augmentation is shocking. How is it different from the foot-binding Chinese women had done in the 19th Century or the African tribal women with lip plates and neck rings? Unless women are getting implants for medical reasons after mastectomys, it's exactly the same!

[bThese women are volunteering to have their chests cut open and foreign devices implanted -- for the sole reason of pleasing the sexual fetishes of men. [/b


They will tell you that they're doing it for themselves but that's obviously untrue. Would they be getting implants if they lived on a deserted island? Men once considered large breasts unattractive, as evidenced by the old paintings in which women were plump but had apple sized breasts. Somewhere along the line big breasts became fashionable in the world of pornography and now the average high-school girl considers herself unworthy as a lust object until she goes through this surgery.

It's not in the same area as make-up and hair coloring because those things are inexpensive and neither permanent nor dangerous. Have some pride, women! If you can't get a man to like you without having surgical alterations to your body then he isn't worth having!

I guess you women who have actual breasts are the ones who are judging--even the "doctor" on the panel.  I got breast implants almost a year and a half ago and it wasn't for ANY man whatsoever!!  It was for ME.  Do you know what it is like to never have develpoed breasts--even after having 5 babies?  I felt deformed and so unfeminine.   I couldn't even find any bras to fit or clothes to fit me right since they are made for women with breasts to fill them out.  How about swimsuits--do you know what that is like not being able to fill out a swimsuit?  I could easliy have been mistaken for a male if the lights were off (or even just a breast shot) --actually i was by my own husband!!  I was lying on my stomach trying to sleep and he came in and touched me in the dark thinking he was touching my "breasts" and it was my shoulder blades!!!!

How about being made fun of -- I have heard all the jokes all my life and have been made fun of--even as an adult!!  I have been embarrassed and humiliated and degraded for having no breasts!!!  I am not for porn whatsoever and am soooo against it!!  I think women thinking they have to get naked and show their breasts in movies is ridiculous--there is no purpose for it!!!  Now talk about wanting attention!!!  Those women are the ones who are out to please men and doing it for men!!  THEY are the ones degrading themselves!! 

 

Now with implants/breasts I feel like a woman--look like a woman---and feel so much better in my own skin.   I didn't do it for any man's attention.  I got my share of it to begin with.  And if I do find men staring at my chest it bothers me bc that isn't why I got them.  I want to be talked to in the eye and be respected and if that is all a man wants to do is look at me or talk to me bc all he sees are a pair of breasts then he isn't worth talking to and he is a pig!! 

 

 


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