Quote From: lady_tinouThis topic did hit a nerve with you. If the hat fits, wear it. Dr. Phil is not doing any man bashing to my knowledge. He is just telling the things the way they are
MOST OF THE TIME when women seek for tips on how to get a man ( and yes there are the other kind of women out-there "the gold-diggers" but they are not the majority) they are looking for their sole-mate, a man that they can trust, with whom they can build a compatible and a solid relationship and maybe have a family eventually.
However, MOST OF THE TIME when men are looking for tips on how to get a woman (yes, there are lots of good men out there and I must say that in general they do not need those tips) it is to play them, have a one night stand, to add another trophy to their address book or even worse to just have fun with them. They have no regards for the woman's feelings.
In any case, WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND, these people who like to play and manipulate (man or women regardless of their gender) will eventually get what they deserve.
No... it is not wrong for men to look for tips on how to attract women when it is for the right reasons. It's just that very often when men do it, it is for the wrong reasons!!!
A Canadian viewer.
I really dont see how it is so different.... its so the same. Men dont have it easy with women, they are rude and unkind, especially if they dont fit the "TYPE" so why wouldnt they get tips from other guys to not get stompped on.
Look im a women who feels that women should be a bit more understanding. For the many years of going out before I met my husband of 5 years, I also went out with a topic or story.. tips from a magazine. I had to up my game if I wanted to get a man. Granted Im a women and women get more men than men getting women, it worked 98% of the time.
Men are just doing the same... Upping their game. It doesnt them fake.
com'on women get a grip and give men a break..... up your game and find yourself a man.
