Quote From: xfs123OK, Clearly you didn't understand what his guy was saying. He was saying most guys who try to search for advice about women are guys who are generally GOOD MEN, but they just don't know how to communicate there awesome personalities to new women without acting boring or creepy or weird etc. And thats why they get the "Lets just be friends" talk from women whenever they make a move.
Also he NEVER said he had this problem, so why are you assuming he does and bash him for it?
As for the rest of your post. Yes, women are individuals and have different wonderful personalites, but they DO REACT Positively to certain traits found in a man. Such has high self esteem, confidence, the ability to lead, dominance, playfulness, good bodylanguage, good vocal tonality, strong eye contact, humour, sincerity.
Now Understand Attraction can not be Faked, but a guy who is bad/average with women can work on developing more of the traits I listed above and turn into that "cool confident dream man" you always wanted. and that's what MOST guys who are learning to get better with women, are looking for. I know this is true because I am a Dating Coach in my city and most of the guys I help are truely good men. They love women and they want to improve on the good qualties they have and remove the bad stuff that turns off women. (and no this isn't changing your personality at the core so don't freak out when you read this) It means they focus more on keeping and improving the positive qualities they have and remove/stop doing the bad things (like anything creepy or socially awkward stuff they DON'T REALIZE, they are doing.)
So I hope that clarifies things for you.
