Replies to '04/11 Women Beware!'

I'm only talking about the Women being attracted to men point of view, because attraction is different for both sides. For example, men are more visually stimulated, so physical looks in a women is higher on the "attraction scale" to men. While women value personality higher than looks in a man they want. This is why you see average looking to slightly below average looking guys, who have awesome personalities, dating or marrying super attractive women. But this is not to say one or the other trait is hugely more important over the other, cause that's not true, but they are measured differently for both sexes.

And yes men can grow and develop these skills because I've seen many guys do it including myself. I use to be more shy and more reserved. I had trouble keeping eye contact with attractive women and would be intiminated to approach them for fear of rejection. But now I've taught myself to be more fearless, more confident, more outgoing and charismatic and generally more happy with myself over all. So now approaching and dating women is easy for me. So yes men can develop these skills and still keep there "core identity" and be gunuine.

As for your comment about healthy people generally reacting to the traits I listed...why would you not want to attract a healthy person into your life. (:

Yes, I really am a dating coach and yes there are a bunch of companies that try and teach men how to be better with women. For example, Ross Jefferies has Speed Seduction company and Savoy & TheDon have The Mystery Method(which they bought from Eric Von Markovik AKA "Mystery") which I believe is called Love Systems now.

Ross Teaches more NLP(Neuro Linguistic Programming) and Hypnotic types of things which I don't really believe in, but to each his own. While Love Systems(aka the new Mystery Method) even thought they have tried to transition into a more natural style of game, Teaches approaching by the M3 Model. the M3 Model is broken down into Attraction, Comfort, Seduction, with each section having certain things done in it. Like for example in the Attraction phase you first open the group or person, then you do something to show the group you have high value, which will cause the girl you want to be attracted to you, and then the last part of the attraction phase, is show the group that your now interested in a specific girl and give her something to qualify your reasons for liking her.

But overall I think most companies are converting over to teaching a more natural style of game, because its more genuine and less "routine" dependent and it works. I know, I said before, attraction can not be faked and it's true, but if the right guy, who has these good traits in him, is saying whatever routine or line, then it will most likely work.)

Oh and this episode of Dr.Phil was recorded over a year ago, so I'm assuming some of the stuff they will talk about is more old, but it should be a good watch either way. I Can't wait (:

Really, I'm not trying to knock you...I just don't really buy the concept of a "dating coach"...to each their own right?