Replies to '04/11 Women Beware!'

Many men are attracted to women with specific qualities and apperances just as many women are attracted to men with specific qualities and apperances.  I don't think that's gross.  Humans choose mates for various reasons just as all creatures do.  Ask different men what they consider attractive and you will get different answers.  I don't think that doing what women already respond to could be considered manipulation.  Avoiding boring topics of conversation, standing with good posture, and making eye contact is not manipulative, but some people just need to be shown the right way to do it.  As for getting something that you couldn't get honestly we would also have to include contact lenses, hair coloring, diet, exercise, and general good grooming as dishonest techniques for both men and women.