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April 9, 2008, 12:08 pm PDT
04/11 Women Beware!
Quote From: ktjktjktjMany men are attracted to women with specific qualities and apperances just as many women are attracted to men with specific qualities and apperances. I don't think that's gross. Humans choose mates for various reasons just as all creatures do. Ask different men what they consider attractive and you will get different answers. I don't think that doing what women already respond to could be considered manipulation. Avoiding boring topics of conversation, standing with good posture, and making eye contact is not manipulative, but some people just need to be shown the right way to do it. As for getting something that you couldn't get honestly we would also have to include contact lenses, hair coloring, diet, exercise, and general good grooming as dishonest techniques for both men and women. Manipulating a woman because you want to get into her panties is gross. I think it's just fine to like people who look a certain way, but from what I have read on the description of this show this is about MORE than that. This is about making yourself appear to have a different PERSONALITY and CHARACTER in order to seduce a woman, in order to get her into bed. THAT is gross.
And the last part of your post shows exactly WHY these superficial qualities are SUPERFICIAL. It's just like polishing dog crap...you can look good on the outside EASILY. All it takes is a little buff up. Your personality is harder to shine up. If you lie about the things you LIKE to talk about, if you lie about the way you NORMALLY are as a person for the simple reason of getting into someone panties, that is GROSS.
If you want to change as a person change for yourself, at trite as that sounds, there is wisdom in it. People don't want to have others put on an elaborate character changing, personality changing act just to get their loins lubed.
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