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April 9, 2008, 12:21 pm PDT
Homosexuality
Quote From: lori6979
The truth will set you free... Life is not a dress rehersal we come around one time this is the time to make the best of your life. We make choices in our lives to be happy or misrable. If you are happy and fullfilled in your marriage then so be it. But to go through life as a robot living it for everyone else but yourself is a travisty. Be yourself-be who you are- the people who truly love you will accpt your decisions and be there for you those who don't don't deserve to be in your life in the first place. Who cares if you are an atheist?? And who cares if people can't handle what you are There not any better then you are remember something ...everybody has a cross to bear...Do the people you know have nothing better in their lives to worry about then your religious or lack of religious beliefs you have? You are entitled to your choices to beleive in God or not to believe in A God that is your right to decide. I beleieve we respect peoples beleifs and not judge them . If you family, friends, husband etc are devout Christians or whatever you respect their belifs and in return they should respect your views end of story that is nothing you should be in the closet about. AS you said "the world is more accepting' what is the worst thing your husband would do if you told hom you were bisexual kill you?? I have a married friend who is bisexual and her husband is completly aware of it and accepts it because he Loves her. Get out of the closet and live your life the way you want to live it and not the way other people Expect you to live! The most inportant thing is to be whatever you are without shame! Good luck in your life and remember BE HAPPY!!!!! Oh, just so you know my husband is fully aware that I am bisexual, he was before we married. It's not an issue for him at all. I am not in any closet with my husband, it is with other people in my life. The situation gets very sticky, but I am in therapy and hoping I can find some kind of confidence and courage to be able to be myself despite what some people will say.
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