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April 10, 2008, 10:43 am PDT
name calling
Quote From: jonesy385I am a woman, 51 years old, and personally, I don't blame that husband one bit for not wanting to sleep with his wife who is 170 lbs, when she was 130 lbs when she married him. He married a slim woman, and he TOLD HER AHEAD OF TIME that he didn't like fat women. And she gained 50 LBS. That's a lot of weight. I do not agree with the name-calling. But I can understand how he would say having sex with her is like diving into Jello (or whatever he said).
Now, the woman who married a thin man (gorgeous in the photo!), and is now married to a 300+Lb tub of lard, with a dangling belly apron...FORGET IT, I would NEVER SLEEP WITH THAT THING, and I don't blame her AT ALL for not sleeping with him and for telling him that he looks fat...HE IS FAT, and compared to his old photo, now he really does look horrible. If the man I married at 150Lbs suddenly grew to 180, or 200Lbs...I would be friends with him (maybe)...but I wouldn' t sleep with him, becaue it would make me sick to see the dangling belly thing. I am with her. If I was her (AND HE FARTS AND BURPS IN PUBLIC, AND IS OBESE ALONG WITH THAT???) -- If I was her, I would've ditched him with the first fart...and that probably happended long before he gained all the weight. Hmmmm, you say you don't agree with the name calling. And yet in your next paragraph you refer to that guy as a "tub of lard with a dangling belly apron" And then say you would "never sleep with that thing". So should I take it to mean that spouses should not name call but that YOU somehow get a free pass to be insulting? One would think that by age 51 a person would have developed some compassion for others and would do away with the insults. Personally, I would sooner dump a compassionless person than a heavy person.
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