Replies to '04/10 Marriage Dilemmas'

I am born and raised and live in Manhattan, about a half block from where the Stonewall Riot happed that started Gay Pride day.  Now, I saw this woman on TV just now, and I wanted to reach into the screen and shake her.  What part of BURY YOUR HEAD IN THE SAND DENIAL doesn't she get?  First of all, that guy would not have to be an interior decorator, and he wouldn't have to able to sew, and he wouldn't have to be talented enough to design my WEDDING GOWN for me to SEE THAT HE IS GAY.  The second he opened his mouth, I could tell he wasGay!  Top that with the interior decorator/sewing/wedding gown deseign.. AND THEN MALE PORNO MAGS IN THE CAR???!!!  I AM SOOOO SORRY...I grew up in the 70's, with threesomes and all kinds of drugs and wild stuff...very libral things...HOWEVER, I draw the limit at sleeping with a man who likes to get it in the you-know-what.  I AM SO SORRY....HOW THE HECK COULD THE QUEEN OF DENIAL SLEEP IN THE SAME BED WITH THAT MAN, OR EVEN LOOK AT HIM IN THE EYE AGAIN, AFTER SHE SAW THAT HE HAD GAY MALE PORNO MAGS IN HIS CAR???  Because if they were in the care, obviously he was either doing it, or thinking of doing it, and I would NEVER sleep with a man who wanted to have  any kind of sex with another man.  SORRY.  My best friend is a gorgeous Gay man, who looks like a model.  HOWEVER, I wouldn't want any husband or lover of mine shacking up with a guy.  That would be gross.  HOW COULD THAT WOMAN BE SO BLIND???!!!  I am so glad, Dr Phil just brought up the subject with her, of denial.  HOW COULD SHE MEET THIS GUY AND NOT SEE HE'S GAY THE SECOND HE OPENED HIS MOUTH???  I COULD TELL!  HOW COULD SHE HAVE KIDS WITH A GAY MAN.  HOW COULD SHE BE SEXUALLY AROUSED BY SOMEONE WHO IS SUCH A FLAT-OUT NELLY (that is my best friends word, for what he calls a guy like that, and he is a Gay man, and he is NOT a Nelly AT ALL).  Why would such a pretty lady be so DESPERATE???