Quote From: sarabear(Momakababe, don't you believe in giving people another chance? Hasn't anyone given you the opportunity to redeem yourself for something in your life you may have regretted? Everyone in the world deserves that chance for no one is perfect) FEEL BAD FOR ME I'M THE VICTIM
(But like I said maybe you need to get your own advice show to tell people what to do instead of spending all your time in front of the computer trying to ruin families.) PROJECTION -YOUR THE ONE WHO IS RUINING YOUR OWN FAMILY
(Yes, I am mad about your comments but it was understandable, but please don't say I'm behaving until this blows over, for my counseler and myself am working very hard on correcting this) AGAIN I AM THE VICTIM AND YOUR HURTING ME FOR NO REASON YOU'RE MEAN
and well all the rest is more of the same... I am trying so hard to change that whole paragraph was 'I' 'I' 'I' even in your healing its all about how your going to be the hero and be the one in a million chance narcissist who stops thinking only of himself and his own needs. You're a mud puddle pretending to be an ocean. The only purpose of a narcissist is to show other people how strong they can become after the emotional soul rape that all narcissists do to those closest to them is finally over and they move on to their next supply. They are the real life vampires.
exactly....................
and I found this some what frieghtening.
"And if I have to be the poster person to show that it can be done, then I will. For I love my wife and kids, and I will stick with this till the end. "
Time will tell for real and chances are she already knows. She just needs to remember some of the survival things we've mentioned here and she already knows that 1 link given to her gave her traits that she'd said he fit *all of*. She has to know that this isn't just stuff off the tops of the heads of "meddlesome people". And so if all that does is allow her to realize she wants to retain some of the things to look for and some things to help prepare to flee an ugly situation then it's been time well spent. On top of that we've no way of knowing how many other abused women are reading along that may click on a link, start reading and think "ohmygod maybe I can get out of here." or "I'm not crazy & other women are told the same" etc.
