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April 11, 2008, 11:29 pm PDT
Sex
Quote From: angela730Hi everyone,
I'd love to hear any and all input here. Nine years ago, I married a man that I was never physically/sexually attracted to. And I mean NEVER. We always had great sex....he's a good lover. We also had a good relationship in terms of communication, etc. However, the only guys I've ever been physically/sexually attracted to are NOTHING like my husband. They are all thin, dark hair, beautiful eyes, etc. My husband is heavy, broad, light hair and beady eyes. I'm having so much trouble lately with sex because I can no longer ignore the fact that I find my husband unattractive. I don't like the way he looks, the way he smells, NOTHING appeals to my senses. I don't like the sound of his voice, his attitude, his opinions, his humor, etc. It's really bumming me out. My question is, can a marriage survive this?!! What you are saying is much more than LOOKS...his opinions? His humor? His attitude? Those have nothing to do with not having beautiful eyes.
Honestly...there is much more going on here. If you'd rather talk through email feel free to email me...but there is more to this story...there has to be.
My husband has gained a lot of weight over the years, we too have been married 9 years. He's not what he looked like when we met...however the love we share transcends this. I look at him and his beauty is the memories we share, what a wonderful father he is, what a hard worker he is, the things he says, his brilliant mind, his humor, his attitude and his opinions.
What DO you love about him?
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