the older daughter is just acting out what her mother has done to her - and the fact that she (the Mom) would act like that to her granddaughter made my stomach sick . I feel bad for the mean old b - Iam a grandmother of 6 and it has been my most rewarding gift of my life, even in my family surrondings I had to show the other grandparents what they where missing.
Nothing and I mean nothing can take the place of the time I spent with each of them - I make the effort - maybe that MOM will change her ways but if not she doesn't deserve the grandchildren - let her hug and laugh with her WILL - And for sure not complain when no one wants to love her anymore -
Keep in mind that the older daughter is wrong in her behavior - but pain is strong - she told us many times her heart is broken and no one seems to be listening - she is just acting out what she knows - or what she doesn't know . I think I heard she is papying half of the monthly payment on the property but has no rights to the property if and when her mom dies.
I think she ( the daughter ) is trying to protect her family - he should be able to have the house they are paying for - WHAT A GREEDY MOTHER - I understand the daughter - she has probably been treated tramatical since she was young -
The way the grandmother acted - shows the truth - Mothers can be wrong and THEY KNOW IT - know one has ever called her on it.
Good for you Dr. Phil
Love to both the daughters - forget Mom - Go get your home atleast so the grandchildren have a roof over their head
I wish you the best
