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April 16, 2008, 10:05 am PDT

Bragging Rights or What???

Quote From: desertnan

Part of me is interested in family problems while part of me wonders why no one seems to want to show us families with no problems. I have a fraternal twin sister and we were both adopted by a married couple when we were about three months old. We had a very good role model for a mother and neither of us caused any trouble. We didn't get involved with the "wrong" people, never did drugs, smoked, stayed out until all hours, were never insubordinate, and didn't get into shouting matches with either parent. We weren't perfect and we spanked from time to time, but got good grades in school, good attendance, did our homework, were never tardy or absent, or got detention. We moved out at 18, went to college, got jobs and never moved back home.  We never got pregnant, became alcoholics or drug addicts, and never robbed banks, houses or stores. As I said, we must have been boring children. When our family dined out my sister and I were well behaved and never ran around the restaurant or made noise at the table. We went to Sunday school, then church, though not diligently. All in all, I feel we are sadly overlooked and all I can do is hope there are plenty of viewers out there who know that for every family depicted with all their problems in the media, there are many other families doing just fine.

 

It sounds like you have the perfect lives, however, you and I both know that there is no such thing. Are you or your sister married? Have kids? If so and you haven't made it thru the teen years with them, then you just might be the next Dr. Phil family! (And it's not over even if you do make it thru the teen years!!) It seems like you're trying to make every parent that DOES have problems with their child or in their marriage feel like they did something wrong and deserve what is happening to them. Just remember, a preacher can raise a prostitute and a prostitute can raise a preacher. Be careful bragging about you're wonderful glory days as teenagers...it might not be that simple when you pull back the curtains on your own family. Just a thought!
 


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