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April 14, 2008, 1:51 pm PDT

She should be an open book!

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my girlfriend and i have been together for six years. she told me that she was sleeping with another man for the past two mounths. i am willing to give her another chance but on several conditons one condition is that she take a polygragh to show the she is truely being honest with me. she said she would hate me if i had her take the polygraph. that i should take her word thate it was only this one guy and that was all there is to it. what should i do. i love her very much but do i live with her hate or my conscience.
If she is not willing to take a polygragh then she probably isn't telling you the whole truth. If she had nothing to hide then it wouldn't be a problem. Like Dr. Phil says, for every rat you see, theres 50 you don't. I think that is a pretty acurate stetement. When i found out about my husband he came clean with about 10 other things that he had done with other woman. If you need her to take one to have peace of mind,she should be willing to do anything it takes! She broke the trust. Now she needs to rebuild it.
 
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April 15, 2008, 1:27 pm PDT

Cheated On

Quote From: drewtime

my girlfriend and i have been together for six years. she told me that she was sleeping with another man for the past two mounths. i am willing to give her another chance but on several conditons one condition is that she take a polygragh to show the she is truely being honest with me. she said she would hate me if i had her take the polygraph. that i should take her word thate it was only this one guy and that was all there is to it. what should i do. i love her very much but do i live with her hate or my conscience.

She is your girlfriend, not your wife. Why are you putting up with this? If she had nothing to hide then she would gladly and willingly take a polygraph (although they are not 100%).  She cheated on you. So she has the responsibility of regaining your trust. It is unrealistic that you would blindly take her word... In fact, it would be outright foolish.

 

She violated the most intimate and sacred trust that could be violated.

 

Why did she suddenly admit this to you?

 

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