Quote From: clairebear1980I've recently discovered that my partner cheated on me when I was 3 months pregnant. He went to what I thought was a friend's wedding. Turns out he was going as another girl's date. They ended up having sex in the restaurant bathroom (how classy.) and she got pregnant also. It apparently only happened the once.
My partner has had nothing to do with either her or the baby (now 7 months old).
My issue is that I cannot get past this betrayal. Any time he doesn't answer his phone at work, or is cagey about who he had lunch with, I immediately suspect that he's screwing around on me again.
The other woman and I have been in contact (and are even "friends"' on Facebook!) just because she and I will have to make a decision down the track as to whether to tell our children they have a sibling.
I found all this out when my daughter was 4 months old (6 months ago) and I just can't stop being upset by it.
How do I get the grief out of my system so that my partner and I can move on and have a trusting relationship again?
Can you please tell me why women insist on being with CHEATING MEN? do you have some kind of disease? are you sick and dying? your not going to have a trusting relationship again, so keep doing it to yourself keep torchering yourself... cause you obviously like it... its obvious he cheated, that he stuck his P**** in some other woman, its obvious he will always have that bond with that other woman...
come on women are better than that just please stop and move on no matter how hard it is, yeah you might want your kid to have a father but what about your heart and thoughts and morals, what are you teaching your kid, that its okay to cheat you'll just forgive and be miserable for the rest of your life...
