Quote From: didi2003
Hi! I am a married mother.
I'm not very happy in my marriage. Lately ( a few months now) I have been having fantasy about having sex with womens. Out in the real world I don't look at women like that but on the internet I just can't stop. I've been going on lesbiens and bi-sexual sites but have not have the courage to post anything. From what I've read it seems normal cause it seems there's a lot of woman wanting to explore. Like I said I'm not happy in my marriage, he's not a bad guy I just don't think he has a clue and maybe a woman would and I don't only mean sexualy.
I guess what I would like is some input on how I'm feeling. Maybe somebody reading this has been in the same situation.
Thanks for listening.
Well what I read in your message is that you don't really like women but you are just not satisfied with your partner. What you should do is talk to him. Not what he does wrong but give hints like "I would love it if you would ..." or better "Oh I so like ..."
And when it comes to sex that is even more true, he doesn't have the same package as you so he doesn't know what turn you on. Just guide him a little. show what you like in your body and voice (just accentuate a little.) Or guide him a bit with your hands over his hands making movements you like for instance.
You will need to help him know what you like, he can't smell it unfortunatly. After a while he will probably pick it up on his own.
I hope you can work this out with him on your own or with a little help.
xx Oet Gäöl
