Replies to '03/14 Overprotective Moms'

Quote From: chicyuna

 Theresa, I just wanted to say that I'm sorry if I offended you. That was not my intention with my advice. I was simply giving my advice based on the wonderful, loving relationship I have with my mother. And I would not change what I have with her for the world. You have a very bright, young woman as a daughter. As a matter of fact, she reminded me of myself when I was her age. Although I see a very loving relationship the two of you have, I can also see the frustration she has with your overprotectiveness. Everyone could. She was almost on the verge of tears! I know you are trying to do your best with Ashlee, and I applaud you coming onto the show. That was very brave of you. But think about what it will be like when she gets older. It seems to me like she would rebel against you, and I'm most certain you wouldn't want that. I understand you are trying to protect her from the bad in this world, like most parents would. However, by being overprotective, Ashlee is not getting the chance to experience life, and see the beautiful side of it. Wouldn't you want to have a great relationship with her when she gets older? Wouldn't it be great for the two of you to sit down, and talk about things that girls do? Like boys, and life, and clothes, things like that? Now, from what I've seen (and please understand that the one problem with the show is that it's only for a short amount of time that we get a glimpse into your life) you might not have that with her. She might start hiding things from you, and not telling you things that you, as a parent, needs to know. I know you say that she's a good child, and she really does seem like one, but sometimes, even good kids do things that'll shock their parents. I know you live by 2 child molesters, and I'm sorry for that, but like some other people have suggested, have you ever thought about moving? Or perhaps joining a committee to get rid of them in your neighbourhood? Have you taught Ashlee what to do if she ever gets into a sticky situation? I was quite pleased when Dr. Phil suggested getting her into a self defence class. I think all people, especially women, should take one. It's a wonderful idea. Anyways, like I said, I'm sorry if I offended you. I know you are trying to do your best with Ashlee, and you seem like a very loving mother who just wants to protect her children. But Ashlee is her own individual with a mind of her own, and she just wants to spread out her wings. And you can help her achieve that. I wish you and her all the best, and I will keep you in my thoughts. I hope Dr. Phil has you on again, so we can see the progress you're making. Good luck. :D

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