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April 14, 2008, 9:26 pm PDT
04/14 The Dr. Phil House: House of Greed
Quote From: xqqqme2Lisa crossed the line and mom put up a fence to let her know it. Heck, if I wasn't dead yet and my daughter started bringing up what she felt she was entitled to of mine before I was even gone...I too would put up a fence and let them know their are boundries to property and lisa needs to see visable evidence like when Doctor Phil came in with the dirt and put it on the floor. Hell, if my son in law was so disrespectful to my face the way he has admitted to being then I too would get ticked and come out and say things and basically let that son in law know that THEY are getting nothing. To this day because of one comment my daughter in law made to me that was disrespectful has made me rethink how I wanted my stuff distributed after I was gone. AS far as the grandchldren go....Sonja should get the pleasure of giving the grandchild something special while she is alive and leave it at that...maybe a piece of jewelry or something. I have a feeling mom is ticked at her daughter and son in law because of his disrespect and she shouldn't feel one bit guilty . Shame on lisa for even bringing it up. Mom looks in good health and Soon lisa will realize this was crossing the line. When mom does go, lisa will be Thankful for her little sister because they both know mom. When my mom died I was so thankful for my brothers and sisters because I knew they were the only people who really knew my mom and I could share the hurt and pain of the loss with them. I say just from watching that one episode that the husband of Lisa is behind a lot of it ...he sits back and just lets it all happen.....he should have shown respect for Lisa's mom and not said anything so disrespectful to her. That is what is making Sonja irritated with it all. No mother really wants to cut her children out but she probably can't stand lisa's husband and feels if she is verbal about it she is letting him know that he doesn't have a cash cow. Sure would be something if Lisa went ahead and accepted it as it is and I wonder how long Lisa's husband would stick around. Yikes...one comment made you rethink your will. It seems like so little breaks up families. I think more grace and forgiveness is needed....from the mother and the daughter on the show. Both have to give - the relationships of family are way more important than anything that could be left in a will. Cutting someone out is showing there is no grace or forgiveness. The daughter wants love and validation even if her actions and her husbands don't show it.
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