I felt your pain because, I too, lived it. This is not about property or wills or money it is about control and meanness. Sonja job in life is to cause havic and dissent to those around her. In her twisted way she weighs her love that way.
I came from a family of 7 children and my mother spent her life pitting one of us against the other. If we hated each other all we had was her to worship: and God help us if we didn't.
The day my mother died I could not shed one tear I only felt relief running through my veins. But she won....she made sure I didn't even get one family keepsake. Not monitary things, but the things that really mattered like a piece of jewly that belong to my Dear Grandma or a cufflink from my beloved father.
I know your pain...and I share it. Peggy
