Quote From: suebonnetsue Are you saying that the child, in this case, Lisa, is just as reponsible for how she was raised, how she learned to behave, as her mother? She was troubled her whole life? Ummmm............how did that happen? Perhaps by having a mother who never loved her? So mommie dearest Sonja also deserves a pity party?
Nope. Sorry. No can do. Sonja was the mother who never loved her child. To what ever degree Lisa is messed up, that can be laid at the feet of her Mommie Dearest, the witch who didn't even want her to visit the hospital when Lisa's sister was born. Who the hell waits of invitation to visit a new baby and mother in the hospital? Like most people, I had at least 10 family members and numerous friends arrive at the hospital when my son was born. NONE of the received invitations from me! They just showed up to see the baby, bring flowers, and share in our happiness. You know, like the rest of the world does it when a precious new being has come into this world.
Read the post line for line not just what you think it says, What i said was if you lay all the blame at Sonja feet for Lisa bad action, then you have to do the same for Sonja, and lay all her actions on her mother, and keep going generation after next until you have the person you can blame ( so your the one who screwed up your off springs so much)
Grown ups take resonsibility for there actions, Lisa is a adult just as much as her mother, both need to take on their responsiblitiy, both are ugly and nasty people, both are the spawns of satan malicious and wicked, lol........................we have found who is responsible, THE DEVIL MADE THEM DO IT!!!
