Quote From: suebonnetsue That's nice that you value the quilts and that they bring you fond memories. (Do You like my nic?) But you cannot expect other people to value what you value, just as Sonja cannot expect her grandchildren to value (and want for gifts) the things that she values.
You sound SO much like Sonja. There are SO many similiarities. I was first tipped off by you saying that Lisa was having a 'pity party', the EXACT same thing that Sonja said about Lisa.
Interesting.....................
I hope you don't teach your children that value system? you said it so you most likely do
You should teach your children show greatfulness and respect for what a person gives them, after all it is a gift, something that is given, not something you have to do.
If that is true that Sonja can't expect the grand kids to value what she gives them, Then why would she give them anything in the will, When you write a will out you take the time to think of what you want to give and who you want to give it to, because it does have value to you, and your not going to give someone something of yours that is not going to be valued. thanks you made a good point for me to use.
