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May 20, 2008, 6:56 pm PDT
Don't belive it's possible.
Quote From: mustbecrazyMy husband (of 27 years) and I experienced love at first sight...but we got to be best friends as we got to know each other...infatuation fades...friendship is true deep love, that can last a lifetime...with effort, tolerance, and hard work.
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding...that's just the beginning...love her always...but most of all, be her best friend... Let me start by saying I believe myself to be a romantic. I love filling a room with candles and giving my lover a massage with music playing. But love at first site! NO. It's a romantic thought and makes for a great story. But anyone who's truly been in love, you know that the feeling of love comes from knowing everything about a person, good and bad, and still loving them in spite of the bad. When you first see someone, you don't KNOW them. Can you really love someone you don't know? I don't think so. Love comes from knowing everything about a person and being totally drawn in to who they are. When you first see someone you can feel lust, or infatuation, but not love. True love comes from knowing everything about them and loving all of it.
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