Replies to '04/21 The Dr. Phil House: House of Greed, Part 2'

 
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April 20, 2008, 1:16 pm PDT

Withheld love, not money

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I am sorry but that daughter needs to leave her mom alone.. It's her money and her proporty..If I bugged my mom about that sort of stuff she'd cut me out of her will too.. Plus to have a grandchild involved saying that she's upset that grandma didn't even leave her anything is just plan rude.. That's one thing you don't do is talk about what you're going to get when someone passes on when their still alive, way to show the love.. This is for the daughter.. BACK OFF.. If you don't like what your mom has done then leave, stop blaming your half sister like she asked to be born,to be spoiled and have everyone make a fuss over her.. OMG I can't express how mad I am at her..

I don't believe that this is about the money, it's about the love that mother refuses to give to her oldest daughter. You stated that if you bugged your mom about the money, she'd cut you off, so you know that your in her will but most of all, i'm sure you know that your mom loves you, this daughter is not loved and you can tell by the mom's response to everything, she's cold with a heart made of ice. Did you not hear when the mom and the youngest daughter were talking alone in the room? Even the youngest daughter was telling her mom that she's wrong and should be treating the two of them fairly. I have 3 children and love all of them equally, I don't know how a mother could pick or choose which child to love and which not to love, it's beyond my comprehension. Even if I were to have more problems with one than the other two, i could never cut any of them out because I love them all, i just don't understand parents like her, she makes me sick, i wanted to vomit when Dr. Phil was having her view her two daughters talking and she was making all those horrible comments, shame on her. You can tell she doesn't love that daughter, if my daughter thought I didn't love her, OMG! She would have my heart and all i could give to understand her but I don't have that problem because my children know that I love them all. I believe that the daughter is using the money situation because it's much easier to use or talk about money than come right out and say that her mom doesn't love her without breaking down everytime. I mean really, to tell the daughter to BACK OFF, tsk tsk, that's a daughter, she's not asking for all, now that would be spoiled, she's just asking to be treated fairly and that's not much to ask for from a parent, who should be by nature giving love unconditionally.

 
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April 21, 2008, 5:22 am PDT

04/21 The Dr. Phil House: House of Greed, Part 2

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I am sorry but that daughter needs to leave her mom alone.. It's her money and her proporty..If I bugged my mom about that sort of stuff she'd cut me out of her will too.. Plus to have a grandchild involved saying that she's upset that grandma didn't even leave her anything is just plan rude.. That's one thing you don't do is talk about what you're going to get when someone passes on when their still alive, way to show the love.. This is for the daughter.. BACK OFF.. If you don't like what your mom has done then leave, stop blaming your half sister like she asked to be born,to be spoiled and have everyone make a fuss over her.. OMG I can't express how mad I am at her..
i disagree.....because that wasn't the message there that I understood. The grandchild didn't want money, she wanted MEMORIES, ok, and maybe a picture or purse. That grandmother deserves to see the pain she's caused the innocent people in this story, the children. Aren't our children and grandchildren our legacies? Denying money left over when you die is one thing, but to deny yourself of the relationships with your  family while  you are still alive is another matter all together. You can't repair the regrets after you are gone.
 
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April 25, 2008, 6:18 pm PDT

Not Sonja's property

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I am sorry but that daughter needs to leave her mom alone.. It's her money and her proporty..If I bugged my mom about that sort of stuff she'd cut me out of her will too.. Plus to have a grandchild involved saying that she's upset that grandma didn't even leave her anything is just plan rude.. That's one thing you don't do is talk about what you're going to get when someone passes on when their still alive, way to show the love.. This is for the daughter.. BACK OFF.. If you don't like what your mom has done then leave, stop blaming your half sister like she asked to be born,to be spoiled and have everyone make a fuss over her.. OMG I can't express how mad I am at her..
Excuse me, but the property is owned by Lisa, Javan and Sonja...It is not Sonja's alone.  In fact she was on the brink of losing the property some time ago and Lisa and Javan financed it for her, because she could not qualify herself...Sonja was going to WILL the land to Sara but Lisa owns it, so she cannot BACK OFF, it would be like some one driving off in your car and you wanted it back but everyone just told you to BACK OFF...so OMG get over it because you definately do not have all the facts...
 


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