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April 27, 2008, 12:45 pm PDT

Give Bryce a chance

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Thank you, Esther, for choosing life for your baby!  Thank you for making the selfless sacrifice to have your child raised in a two-parent home!

Bryce, I am sorry for your loss, however I hope you will be able to forgive Esther for not consulting you regarding the adoption.  Please realize that a child needs more than love.  Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married.

OMG!!! What are you thinking? I agree she chose life for her baby in having her instead of an abortion, which should never be an option in my opinion, but that is the only thing I agree with you on. How do you figure she made a selfless sacrifice by giving her child up to a two parent home instead of the babies biological father? Having two parents does not make a child's life necessarily better, sometimes it can be worse. Also who is she to be the only person to make such a life changing decision? This isn't only going to affect her but Bryce also. You also said "that a child needs more than love", how do you know he couldn't give his child all she needs or that the adoptive parents will be able to do this? Your last statement  is a little one sided, you said to Bryce, "Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married", what about Esther, they BOTH consented to have sex so in turn they BOTH should be considered when it comes to any decisions having to do with THEIR baby! Give Bryce a fair chance and stop judging him for BOTH of their choices.
 
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April 27, 2008, 5:58 pm PDT

04/30 "It's My Baby Too!"

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Thank you, Esther, for choosing life for your baby!  Thank you for making the selfless sacrifice to have your child raised in a two-parent home!

Bryce, I am sorry for your loss, however I hope you will be able to forgive Esther for not consulting you regarding the adoption.  Please realize that a child needs more than love.  Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married.

 There is enough children abandoned, in foster care, orphanages  and the streets all around the world.  You do not need to take a child from a parent that wants and loves them.  I think it was good that Esther did not abort but she had a man who tried to do the right thing. 
 
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April 30, 2008, 1:15 pm PDT

Are you kidding me!!!

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Thank you, Esther, for choosing life for your baby!  Thank you for making the selfless sacrifice to have your child raised in a two-parent home!

Bryce, I am sorry for your loss, however I hope you will be able to forgive Esther for not consulting you regarding the adoption.  Please realize that a child needs more than love.  Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married.

Who the hell are you? This man should have his kid. Who cares about being in a two parent home. She needs to be with her father. I cant believe you would say something like this. You are one of the reasons why men hate women!!!! Your a joke too!
 
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April 30, 2008, 2:22 pm PDT

04/30 "It's My Baby Too!"

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Thank you, Esther, for choosing life for your baby!  Thank you for making the selfless sacrifice to have your child raised in a two-parent home!

Bryce, I am sorry for your loss, however I hope you will be able to forgive Esther for not consulting you regarding the adoption.  Please realize that a child needs more than love.  Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married.

I'm sorry to say this but your comment might be the most ignorant thing I've ever heard!!  I agree with you that children need a lot more than love and I was blessed to be born into the best family in the world. But you are living in a fairy tale world if you can seriously sit there and tell Bryce to wait until he's married to make a baby next time. Furthermore, who do you think you are to take that self righteous attitude toward a horrible and unjust situation.  Whether or not  you a agree with these people's decision to have premarital sex, please tell me that you aren't using that as a justification for taking away this poor man's God given right to take care of the child that he took part in creating.  There are so many children who grow up and never know their fathers because they are low-lifes.  This man has a serious desire to be a part of his kid's life and I think it's so sad that he doesn't even get a chance.  You need to realize that not everyone has the luxury of making the best decisions all the time.  The fact that they aren't married is irrelevant and frankly ridiculous! This man should get his baby back!!!!!
 
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April 30, 2008, 2:43 pm PDT

04/30 "It's My Baby Too!"

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Thank you, Esther, for choosing life for your baby!  Thank you for making the selfless sacrifice to have your child raised in a two-parent home!

Bryce, I am sorry for your loss, however I hope you will be able to forgive Esther for not consulting you regarding the adoption.  Please realize that a child needs more than love.  Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married.

How can you say she chose life for her child?  I have adoped children and they always want to know where their parents are...why did they leave, why didn't they visit me...The father will have no contact, because of a crazy law.

 

The child has more then loving parents now, it has a mother that visits, grand parents that visit..and they seem very bitter.

 

I gather you don't know many adopted children, and what happens to them as they age..What about siblings down the road. How can you be so judgemental. Turn the table, you have a baby girl..and you have no control over the situation. It doesn't matter that you give birth or not..the love comes from the heart.

 
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April 30, 2008, 2:44 pm PDT

04/30 "It's My Baby Too!"

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Thank you, Esther, for choosing life for your baby!  Thank you for making the selfless sacrifice to have your child raised in a two-parent home!

Bryce, I am sorry for your loss, however I hope you will be able to forgive Esther for not consulting you regarding the adoption.  Please realize that a child needs more than love.  Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married.

ok just two things one... yes marriage is good b4 child but does not have to be. and two... i am a single mother with just me and my daughter in our home and she has the best she can have with or without a man living there. so i guess my point is it dont take two.
 
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April 30, 2008, 2:59 pm PDT

04/30 "It's My Baby Too!"

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Thank you, Esther, for choosing life for your baby!  Thank you for making the selfless sacrifice to have your child raised in a two-parent home!

Bryce, I am sorry for your loss, however I hope you will be able to forgive Esther for not consulting you regarding the adoption.  Please realize that a child needs more than love.  Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married.

A child needs more than love???? love means more than whats in a pocketbook,and some single family homes are a heck of a lot better than a two parent home where parents fight all the time,And what about forgiving Esther? ,Esther is the one who will have to forgive herself when a few years down the road she realizes she is under daddies thumb and she cant make a decision for herself,she will probably wind up being in this kind of mess again because she knows she can just give it away like a mistake she made
 
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April 30, 2008, 3:00 pm PDT

You are kidding, aren't you!!!

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Thank you, Esther, for choosing life for your baby!  Thank you for making the selfless sacrifice to have your child raised in a two-parent home!

Bryce, I am sorry for your loss, however I hope you will be able to forgive Esther for not consulting you regarding the adoption.  Please realize that a child needs more than love.  Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married.

Esther was not the only parent, and she morally had the responsiblity to allow the father his right to choose to raise his daughter.  Esther's family are being extremely shelfish and unfair.  They have access to the daughter, but are making sure the bio dad's family are totally left out. Disgusting!!!!
 
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April 30, 2008, 3:19 pm PDT

04/30 "It's My Baby Too!"

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Thank you, Esther, for choosing life for your baby!  Thank you for making the selfless sacrifice to have your child raised in a two-parent home!

Bryce, I am sorry for your loss, however I hope you will be able to forgive Esther for not consulting you regarding the adoption.  Please realize that a child needs more than love.  Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married.

How do you know that the two parent home she is in isn't filled with two parents who drink, abuse their children, or generally are not good parents????  It is so incredibly ignorant for someone to say that having a two parent home is best for EVERY child....it should be based on individual circumstances - and making blanket statements like that just shows incredible ignorance.  And what about Esther, she was there making that baby, too!
 
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April 30, 2008, 3:27 pm PDT

04/30 "It's My Baby Too!"

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Thank you, Esther, for choosing life for your baby!  Thank you for making the selfless sacrifice to have your child raised in a two-parent home!

Bryce, I am sorry for your loss, however I hope you will be able to forgive Esther for not consulting you regarding the adoption.  Please realize that a child needs more than love.  Next time, please don't make a baby until you are married.

Wow that is certainly self serving statement. You seem to reflect the smugness Esther, her parents, and her lawyer all displayed on the show. Couple of questions;

1. you admonish Bryce for "making babies until you are married." Uh if I heard right Esther admitted to "seducing" Bryce on the show. Also she admitted to having consensual "making babies"activities. What advice do you have for her???

2. i don't understand how Esther is making a "self less sacrifice" when she get access to her baby, admitted again on the show, anytime she wants. I think I would categorize it as "having your cake and eating it too."

3. I do agree that a child needs more than love.., but I also had someone tell me once, "a child can't have too many people who love them." My question....why can't Bryce enjoy the right to love his daughter in the open adoption. The same as Esther

Crazy but I am looking down the road at a15 or 16 year old young lady. I wonder if Esther and her parents will feel so smug when her daughter confronts them. What if she DOES NOT understand. Having a 15 year old myself I can tell you they are keen. They can listen when it suits them and ask some surprisingly mature questions. I would also wonder if the adoptive parents will not suffer an angry teenager as well. They went along with all of this deception. The lawyer is the luckiest of all she won't have to face that possibility. Esther I hope her efficiency doesn't come back to haunt you.


My thought is the REAL question is whether if Bryce is unfit to belong in this child's life. If he would be a negative in this babies life then he needs to go. I worry about the influence of the mother, what a surreptitious way to "do what is best" for this little baby.

I sincerely believe in KARMA and when she knocks it is usually right between the eyes.

p.s. I think also that the other grandma has the right the same as the others. She seems to be sincere
 
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