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October 13, 2005, 1:32 pm PDT
To Crystal (Daniels Sister)
Quote From: arcprincesI think that you need to live your life to the fullest and realize that you still have a mother and a father and a brother for you love and experience lifes little moments with!!! Stop blaming Brandi for something that she didn't mean to do! I can't even begin to imagine how you fill. However, I do know what it feels like to want to end it all. I never mentioned it, and my parents never knew anything about it until the day that I took 25+ sleeping pills. In fact, the only way they knew is because my cousin had to take me to the hospital because I couldn't stop throwing up. SHE had to call my parents, not me. The pressure of being "perfect" in today's world is brought on by so many things. I'm not saying that Daniel was trying to kill himself, no one will every know that, because Daniel is the only that can truely tell us. I am sorry for your lose, however...you're young, beautiful, and intelligent, you need to NOT FORGET, but start forgiving a little bit at a time...it's the only way that you're going to be able to move on with you life. You can't ever forget someone that you loved so dearly, however, if the situation were reversed, you would want Brandi's family to forgive your family...it's not easy, and it's a very very very long road (for both sides). However, niether family can go on until the anger is gone...and you have every right to be angry, it's part of the healing process, but 12 years is along time to put your life on hold because of anger. She says she's sorry, you have to believe that, whether it was an accident or not...she can't take it back.
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