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May 3, 2008, 1:15 pm PDT

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Men date women who are younger.  So what's the problem with the other way around?  On a dating website I'm on, I see men in their 60s looking for men in their 30s and 40s.  Now I think that's a little extreme and I would not want to date men 20-30 yers younger than I am.  But a lot of men my age are just too "old."  I am 66 and would prefer dating a man 5-10 years younger rather than 5-10 years older.  But age is really a matter of attitude, not calendar years, anyway.  Once people are mature adults, I don't think it makes much of a differencce, if the common life goals and interests are there.

My sister-in-law is 74.  IF I were not related to her, I'd never believe it!  She is dating a man 10 years her junior, and he looks older than she does!  I could not see her dating a man in his 70's...sorry, but they'd be too "old" unless they had her mindset and stamna. I could be her DAUGHTER, and I cannot keep up with her, so I agree...5 to 10 years, only numbers, attitude counts for much more.

When you get into the 20 to 30 year gap, it's a little "out there", as both age, the gap seems to widen into a generational, and cultural difference.  That can be a problem, for men and women, but a span up to ten years, hell!  Women live longer than men, as a rule...so maybe it's the way it should be.  You go girl!

 


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