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April 27, 2008, 3:45 pm PDT
I agree..
Quote From: jevans79109It's a shame that its such a huge topic for older women to date younger men when men have been doing th same thing or EONS basically. Ohhhh but an older guy with a younger girl is considered a "Stud" or whatever and the older woman is called a cougar.....a vicious, hunting feline. How nice. And not every younger guy leaves when the woman gets older. My mom(57) and step-dad(43) are 12 years apart and have been married 20 years. My husband and I are 12 years apart and he's more of a man and provider than my ex-husband who was 5 years older than me! Just saying age is just a number; it doesn't outline how a person will act. I agree...I have know my husband for a very long time(years) and i would not date him in my early years because of the age difference. I have always liked him. My mother tried all the time to get me to go out with him. It was like mom, come on..I am to old for him, ya know! He is a very handsome man. The last time i saw him was at my Mom's wake in January of 2001. I was visiting my brother and he is kin to my Sister-N-Law (cousins). Now i have not seen him in a long while. He just happens to stop by my brothers for a visit. Which is very rare for him to do so. We began talking, cause we are friends and he is a cutie..hahaha. but anyway, some how he left with me, and we go to my house. Well i live 45 miles from each others family's. He got a good job close to where i live, and we have been together now for 3 1/2 years. We got married in May of last year(2007) so we will be married for a year this next month. I am 12 years older than him. We both think that my mother had something to do with us being together. My mother sent me the most wonderful friend, lover, and husband. He does not want me to work. He provides for us very well. i feel sometimes, maybe later in life he may want someone younger, closer to his age. But he assures me everyday that we are in this together for the long haul. He always tell me how beautiful, sexy, funny, loving, caring i am and we said our vows for a reason. He saids thank god for your mother, i love and miss her and i wish she could see us now. But you know what...god works in mysterious ways!
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