Replies to '07/25 "It's My Baby Too!"'

   An obscure law wherein a man has to register having sex with every woman in order to be a candidate to adopt his own child, can't possibly be on strong constitutional ground.  If a DNA test proves that the child is his, it should go to court. 

    No.  Finding a woman, marrying her, and settling down and forgetting about his child is not in everyone's best interests.  It would help the adoptive parents, though.  They do not have "property rights" to the child, either.     

Are you serious? If he wants to raise a child then find a woman and all that??? He had that... he had a child and none of this would be happening if Esther's dad hadn't taken it upon himself to decide what should happen. Bryce wants to raise the baby he already has... is that so wrong?? When that little girl grows up and asks about her parents do ya really think that anyone is going to tell her the truth that her own birth mother and her biological grandparents decided that her father shouldn't have anything to do with her.

"If he wants to raise a child, why doesn't he find a woman, settle down, get married, and have one together?" HE HAS A BABY DAMN IT AND HE HAS A RIGHT TO RAISE THAT CHILD....NO COURT EVER FOUND HIM UNFIT

YOUR STATEMENT IS VERY FAIRY TALE AND ALL BUT UNFORTUNATLY HE DIDNT GET A CHOICE...IF ANYONE IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE STRESS ON THE CHILD IT IS NOT THE FATHER BUT RATHER THE MOTHER, HER IMMORAL PARENTS AND THE GENIUS LAWYER THEY HIRED

I cannot believe that someone would actually think that a child having their loving, caring biological parent is not what is best for the child!  It's easy for someone to say that this should be let go for the child's sake when they have not been through it themselves. 

I think that some people would see things a little differently if the shoe was on their foot and their child was UNDERHANDEDLY taken from them!

Well maybe you have one of your own to give him, (since you think it is that easy to forget one and get a new one!) go start another family?? What a stupid comment. Yes these tug-of wars hurt people and perhaps the mother and her controlling family should have thought of that before they gave this child to a family friend that they have access to. Sounds to me the mother didn't want the responsibility  financially for this child nor did her parents but they wanted to keep the child within their reach to watch her grow, how selfish is that! I really do not feel sorry for the parents that wanted to adopt this child either, they knew that this was not being handle thru the proper channels, nobody gets to adopt a friends baby just like that. I believe thru a real agency the father would have been included before a child is given to another party. This was all done behind the fathers back, and it was handled by the maternal grandfather, he took matters in his own hands when he talked with the father and the father said no I will raise her myself, I do not want her put up for adoption. This girl and her family just didn't want the father having the baby, that is why the girls dad threatened aborting the baby if he didn't agree. I hope this dad saves this taping and if things go against him and he does not get custody of her she will one day seek him out (or he will wait for her 18th B-D) and he can show this tape to her. It will show her that he fought for her, that he wanted her, and that her bio-mother and her parents that she grew up seeing were the ones who kept him away, and that they are the ones who threatened to have her aborted.

This all lies in the mothers lap, and her controlling parents.