Quote From: sostuckI feel so much pain for this father who has just had his baby ripped from his life! Poor guy. The father should have just as much rights to his baby as the mother does. I don't understand how someone could have the nerve to spread her legs and get pregnant and then give the baby up without even talking to the father about it first. I mean if the mother didn't want a baby then she should have thought about that before having sex unprotected. Obviously the father wanted his baby girl and never ever got a chance at her. I feel very bad for the baby and the dad! As for the lady saying that a child needs a two parent home, I'm sorry but that is absolute bullshit!!! The only thing that is important is that the baby is healthy and happy! So what if the child only has a father or only has a mother. Do you think that if a parent dies that a child should be given up for adoption because it shouldn't be in a one parent home???
As a parent of a 14 month old who waited late in life to have my son; I feel that with out his father in his life
my son would have questions and regrets later in life about him. If I wasn't in his life he would probable have the same questions and regrets towards me.
So what I am trying to say; is that know matter how much love the adopted parents give this little girl, it will never erase the love that her real dad has for her; and he should be able to show her that love no matter how much her real mom and her family feels about the guy.
