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April 26, 2008, 9:49 pm PDT

04/30 "It's My Baby Too!"

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Life seems topsy-turvy to me sometimes. There are men and women who don't want to have a thing to do with thier kids. Then we hear about this man who wants his child and he has no right to her. On another show this week we've got a woman with 7 refridgeraters full of rotting food. On the other hand we've got homeless families digging through the dumpsters. I guess that's just the way it is sometimes. 
If you're a father, you   should have rights to your children and the children should have the right, to be with their natural parents. As long as the parents have proven themselves worthy and have done nothing wrong, then to seperate the family is nothing but an injustice. For i know first hand here my dear friends plz have voice for this young daughter he so deserves to raise.... trina from ohior
 

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May 10, 2008, 1:45 pm PDT

O my God...

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Life seems topsy-turvy to me sometimes. There are men and women who don't want to have a thing to do with thier kids. Then we hear about this man who wants his child and he has no right to her. On another show this week we've got a woman with 7 refridgeraters full of rotting food. On the other hand we've got homeless families digging through the dumpsters. I guess that's just the way it is sometimes. 
I beleive a father has the same rights as a mother does, when a baby is born do they make sure shes gonna be a good mom, no, automatically she is asumed to be, but when it comes to being a dad, you have to prove that youd be a good dad, I think a child has a right to know both thier parents, and if the mom doesnt want the child they should go to the dad.
 
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July 25, 2008, 1:31 pm PDT

07/25 "It's My Baby Too!"

Quote From: housewife52

Life seems topsy-turvy to me sometimes. There are men and women who don't want to have a thing to do with thier kids. Then we hear about this man who wants his child and he has no right to her. On another show this week we've got a woman with 7 refridgeraters full of rotting food. On the other hand we've got homeless families digging through the dumpsters. I guess that's just the way it is sometimes. 
This girl doesnt want this baby, so why is so worried that the man doesnt have a car to take her places when needed. A lot of people out there now days dont have transportation.This girl looks like a damn spoiled brat. Its obvious that these parents spoil the hell out of her, and she has them buffalowed.Even if they didnt let the father have this baby, then  they could have offered this baby to the grandmother or his family friends..  I see this girl and want to slap the damn dog crap out of her, she needs a damn good slapping instead of the parents lying for her.  She needs alot of growing up and the parents need to butt out of this whole situation, she did not need their help to get pregnant, she sholdnt need their help now on the show..... Shes a bitch and that baby is better off without this girls family....... but the fathers famil should have the right to adopt this baby and have her.
 
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July 25, 2008, 2:48 pm PDT

Law is wrong!!!

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Life seems topsy-turvy to me sometimes. There are men and women who don't want to have a thing to do with thier kids. Then we hear about this man who wants his child and he has no right to her. On another show this week we've got a woman with 7 refridgeraters full of rotting food. On the other hand we've got homeless families digging through the dumpsters. I guess that's just the way it is sometimes. 
In Illinois this putative father registry was taken all the way to the supreme court and deemed unconstitutional!!! I know!!! I used it to keep my childs biological father away from her, until it changed.  Dr. Phil I wrote you a more detailed message about it, maybe to help Bryce.  The putative father registry is to protect father's rights not to deny them.  According the parentage act in IL a father can ask for parental rights for up to 2yrs of age, unless he tries to make contact in some other way, letters.... After years of thinking about it I let the biological child have a relationship with her father, and it was the best decision, he is a wonderful DAD!!! and I think so would Bryce.  Besides no DL, and a previous history my childs father is in the same boat and I was told by the judge that he will still get rights besides the putative father issue.  Bryce is a fit parent  and should be allowed to take full custody of his baby girl and the adoptive parents with no blood line shouldn't be allowed anything!!!
 
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July 25, 2008, 3:50 pm PDT

Let's See How Serious He Is....

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Life seems topsy-turvy to me sometimes. There are men and women who don't want to have a thing to do with thier kids. Then we hear about this man who wants his child and he has no right to her. On another show this week we've got a woman with 7 refridgeraters full of rotting food. On the other hand we've got homeless families digging through the dumpsters. I guess that's just the way it is sometimes. 

If the biological father truly wants to be involved, let's see more than talk and make it real.  Since

he missed the one year period to make contributions, let's start now, one year, to make financial contributions to a savings account for his daughter and submit to alcohol and drug testing.  If

he can pass these  requirements, I would think the adoptive parents would consider some kind of contact.  I can understand why they would not want to involve him in their child's life without a very good assurance that it will have a good outcome.  Even though the adoptive parents may not want to accept the money directly from him, that would not stop him from setting up a fund for his daughter that as she becomes an adult and can  make decisions, would benefit her.  It seems most adopted children have a need to find out about their biological parent as they get older.  This would certainly provide a means of showing he did care and could possibly bring them together as adults, if not during the younger years.

 


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