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May 11, 2008, 5:04 pm PDT
Body Image & Sex Appeal
Quote From: miizztriishaI think lingerie helps alot. I used to feel much better about myself until me and my partner were discussing sex a few days ago. She asked me if I felt I was doing everything to please her. (we've only been together a few months, but we're seriously involved). I said I didn't really know what she likes. She started to bring something up, then said "nevermind." I asked her what it was, but she refused to tell me. We got off the phone. I texted her (I knew she would tell me this way) and she said my physical flexibility was the only problem. (I'm pretty much a big girl). When I asked if it was about weight, she said I was overreacting. After interrogating her, I got the truth, and that was she wished I was smalled, but that didn't mean she didn't want sex.
Since then, I really dont feel sexy at all. Only self-conscious. I'll have sex because she wants it, but the whole time I can only think that something is wrong with me My opinion is that your girlfriend needs to get over it. You have only been together for a few months and I am just guessing that you were maybe intimiate before this incident over the phone with her? She knew then what you were all about physically. Its too bad that because of this you feel self-conscious during intimacy. Think of yourself as STILL being SEXY and tell your girlfriend that big girls rule anyways! Size does not matter. Flexibility does not matter. A pin-point connection filled with emotion between two people in a relationship is what DOES matter! Good luck!
p.s. Im a big girl too and all i have to say is BIG GIRLS RULE!!!!!!!!!! I'm 5'11 and weight 220. Yes, I just typed that for the ENTIRE world to see!!! Go me!!!!
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