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April 27, 2008, 7:46 pm PDT
Cleaning out the neighbor's house?
Quote From: ohmygosh1I can't believe how many people have jumped into a "crucify the neighbors" type attitude. There is some kind of underlying problem that would cause this behavior. Yes, they do need help. Help with whatever emotional problems that lead to this behavior. Yes, this is a disgusting situation, but before you cast the first stone, think about what may be happening inside their lives, then concentrate on cleaning the house and finding help for them. Are you saying that we should not judge them, but just clean out their house for them? I don't think that's the answer.
What kind of help should we get them? They don't want help, they don't want their house or yard cleaned out. They don't want counseling either because they don't want to change. They don't want to give up their buying, collecting, their 'treasures'.
How do we force people to get help who don't want help? How do we protect the neighbors houses if the hoarder's house catches fire? How do we protect the hoarder's trashed house and yard from ruining the property values of everyone else around them? Yes, they need help, but they don't want help. They don't want the problem solved. Is that fair to everyone who has to live around them? Is it fair to their adult children, who worry about their safety and health? Is it fair to the animals they keep inside? Is their desire to hoard more important than the neighbors need to live without fear of a fire beginning in hoarder's house and spreading to their home? Is it fair that a hoarder's house and yard can lower property values, and prevent house sales, on their street?
People have every right to be as crazy as they want to be and to refuse to accept counseling, UNTIL they infringe on MY rights to live in safety and to sell my house. Their right to be crazy is not more important than their children's rights to safe, or the rights of my family to be safe. Their right to be crazy cannot be allowed to effect others.
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