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July 30, 2005, 12:32 am PDT

So young...

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i am 16 and i have been single for 5months i was with this guy for almost 6 months he was like my best friend i new him for 2 years i want him back he wants to date me agian to but i dont know what i should do could any of yall help me i love him he is 18 and his name is matt do yall think i should date him

Girl, it just depends on the reason of the breakup. Was he unfaithful? Did he beat you? Did he take money from you?

Consider: Did he finish high school? Is he going to college? If not, does he have a job? Love is beautiful, but if this guy is not trustworthy (cheating, stealing, lying...) or if he is not willing to work at a good future (either by studying or by working), BE VERY CAREFUL.

 

I wasted a good future on a bad guy. I could have had a university degree and the nicer salary that comes with it. I was stupid and in love... for 6 years. I found out he was ceating because he gave me an STD... (Fortunately, I got treated and now I am healty). We broke up. When he asked me to take him back, I told him no. I still loved him but I chose for a better future, even if it meant crying myself to sleep for months.

 

Guess what? I met someone else and he is wonderful. We live in a nice house with a beautiful garden, I have the most beautiful baby daughter in the world, we have no worries about money and I am SO happy I dumped the creep.

 
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July 31, 2005, 11:28 pm PDT

yes give him another chance

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i am 16 and i have been single for 5months i was with this guy for almost 6 months he was like my best friend i new him for 2 years i want him back he wants to date me agian to but i dont know what i should do could any of yall help me i love him he is 18 and his name is matt do yall think i should date him
my name is kaylee  and i was with my boyfried for six months and we to broke up he was my best friend and i was truly devestated when our relationship broke up a few months later we started talking again and  we talked through our problems and decided what we had was wonderful and that we owed it to ourselfs to at least give it another shot well i'm happy to report that was 4 years ago and were still going strong so at least give him another shot so you dont always have to wonder what if i mean you never know if its meant to be it is and if its not its not but dont you owe it to yourself to at least   find out?
 
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August 4, 2005, 10:22 am PDT

Brittany, please be careful.

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i am 16 and i have been single for 5months i was with this guy for almost 6 months he was like my best friend i new him for 2 years i want him back he wants to date me agian to but i dont know what i should do could any of yall help me i love him he is 18 and his name is matt do yall think i should date him
Brittany, you are very young. As you get older, more lifestyle skills get developed---such as having PATIENCE! Just because you're single now, it doesn't mean that you will for the rest of your life. Enjoy all the FREEDOM that you're entitled to. Being single isn't all bad. If you have a good support network where you live, then that'll ensure that you won't get lonely. Apart from that, I wish you the best.
 


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