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April 29, 2008, 12:48 pm PDT

I AGREE

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I cannot imagine the anguish these children are going through. That "man" is a sorry excuse for a human being. He was born male, he should stay that way. GOD does not make mistakes. I cried the whole time I watched this show, my heart aches for these innocent children.
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   short and sweet and to the point!!! This show outrages me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!     HE IS DISGUSTING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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April 29, 2008, 1:01 pm PDT

04/29 Daddy Dramas

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I cannot imagine the anguish these children are going through. That "man" is a sorry excuse for a human being. He was born male, he should stay that way. GOD does not make mistakes. I cried the whole time I watched this show, my heart aches for these innocent children.
How dare you say that he is not a human. You do not wake up one morning and decide to be gay. You do not just 'experiment' without already have thought about it. When he was younger he knew that he was supposed to be a woman. Many people will agree. If 'god' did not make mistakes, then why are you here? Those children are innocent in this whole ordeal. But he did not just choose to feel what is in his head. And in his heart.
 
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April 29, 2008, 1:43 pm PDT

And you call yourself a Christian?

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I cannot imagine the anguish these children are going through. That "man" is a sorry excuse for a human being. He was born male, he should stay that way. GOD does not make mistakes. I cried the whole time I watched this show, my heart aches for these innocent children.

You speak about God as though you think of yourself as a Christian. And you think that they would be better if He/ She had died! That infuriates me!  These innocent children are hurting of course but are acting like spoiled selfish brats. Why should Kayla have lived her life as a man when she felt that she should have been a woman? Because her children wanted her to? Why shouldn't they love their father enough to want him to be happy?  They speak of him as if he has died. He is still there! Just because he wants to be a woman doesn't change his love for them. Kayla has never said that she doesn't want a relationship with the girls. Its the girls that refuse to have a relationship with Kayla.

I also do not agree with the way Dr Phil treated Kayla. Still referring to her as he and him. Clearly Dr Phil had made up his mind before the show. It seems that he chooses the side of the person who writes into the show.

He says that Kayla gets defensive. DUH! I would be defensive too. I agree that maybe Kayla didn't go about informing them the right way, but what about their Mothers? Obviously they knew what was happening, why didn't they prepare the girls?

Everyone here refers to the Bible and God. Including Dr Phil on allot of show. Has anyone actually read the Bible???? We are living in what Revelations calls "The last days". This is what it is all about. Would people think this way if Michael had been born with only one arm? What about if he had been born with both genitals? Think about how Kayla must have felt for the last 40 yrs. Can you imagine how confusing that would be to feel like you should be someone else?  God tells us that we are not to judge. Good thing. I wouldn't  want any of you to be there on judgment day when my sins come up. We are all imperfect people.  The person I quoted above did make a true statement. God does not make mistakes. HOWEVER he doesn't stop them either.

Why?  Because the Devil questioned Gods right to rule, his Sovereignty. He became jealous and wanted the worship for himself. Basically that is what he told Eve, that God had lied to them. He told them that they didn't need God, that they could rule themselves. Genesis 2:1-5

So what has happened since then? We have been trying to rule ourselves and failing. Look at all the wars, the hate, the disease etc. Its not God that is doing this, he doesn't "make" us a certain way. He doesn't "make" us gay, or trans-gendered. We are born that way because of the time we are living in. It has been getting worse and worse , year after year. Just look at the "gender' issue in the world. I'm 34. I can not believe the changes just since I was a kid. 

Others say that they don't believe in this part of the Bible, or that part. Bla bla bla.

I'm sorry you cant pick and chose what you want  to believe in. If you have a recipe for a cake, you don't pick and chose what ingredients you want to add. You read and use it from start to end to get a finished product.

We all say the Lord's prayer and ask for " Your will to be done on earth as it is in heaven"

Obviously we want God to govern us on earth as he does the heavens.

God said that it would be worse than in the days of Sodom and Gomorrah before he brings a end to this old system of things we are living in. Well folks I think we are really close.

I don't hate people like Kayla and either should you. Try to walk a day in their shoes.

 

So I don't think that the girls would be better off if their dad had died. They need to grow up and love him/her for what she is. Their Parent.

 

 
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April 29, 2008, 3:28 pm PDT

04/29 Daddy Dramas

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I cannot imagine the anguish these children are going through. That "man" is a sorry excuse for a human being. He was born male, he should stay that way. GOD does not make mistakes. I cried the whole time I watched this show, my heart aches for these innocent children.
I cry for you.  How sad that you can say something so horrible.  I'm sure you will back it up with some religious quote.
 
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April 29, 2008, 3:33 pm PDT

04/29 Daddy Dramas

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I cannot imagine the anguish these children are going through. That "man" is a sorry excuse for a human being. He was born male, he should stay that way. GOD does not make mistakes. I cried the whole time I watched this show, my heart aches for these innocent children.
God does not make mistakes? Tell that to conjoined twins. Tell that to people born with no limbs. Should they not get prosthetics? Should  conjoined twins not get separated?  If they did they would only be messing up "god's" perfect work...right?
 
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April 29, 2008, 3:45 pm PDT

God doesn't make mistakes!

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I cannot imagine the anguish these children are going through. That "man" is a sorry excuse for a human being. He was born male, he should stay that way. GOD does not make mistakes. I cried the whole time I watched this show, my heart aches for these innocent children.
 You're so right, God doesn't make mistakes and he didn't by making this man the way he is now.  Did you ever think that God planned it this way for us as a human race to grow with love and acceptance to that which is foreign and different?  So long as you're an expert on God and his intentions, do you think that God would want for you to judge his work and decide who is and isn't a sorry excuse for a human being.  I think one who judges others fill that sorry excuse themselves quite well!!
My heart aches for you and all those who judge this man for wanting to live the best life he can!  Few could be as strong as this individual for living his life for as long as he did without losing his mind.  I support him 100% for his decision and I wish him all the best in his life.  He is not alone I'm sure of that!!  I hope he is able to find others to give him support.  The girls will be come through this as they mature and hopefully realize that if they truly love him, it doesn't matter what shell his spirit is contained in!  I hope they open their heart to the pain their father must have gone through his entire life and allow him the happiness he deserves as any human being does. 
 
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May 8, 2008, 3:16 pm PDT

that's horrible to say

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I cannot imagine the anguish these children are going through. That "man" is a sorry excuse for a human being. He was born male, he should stay that way. GOD does not make mistakes. I cried the whole time I watched this show, my heart aches for these innocent children.

 

My four children all under the age of ten, have a wonderful relationship with their "birthfather" that is now a woman.  What a horrible thing to say, that they would be better off if their father was dead...  That is so cruel..They love her, respect her, and  and have a very healthy fullfilled life.  All of them are well adjusted loving children that do not judge others.

 


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