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May 5, 2008, 10:23 am PDT

05/08 Is this Marriage Really Over?

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So, Shani's ready to move into her boyfriend's arms? Whose arms will she move into when he quits "meeting her needs"? Listen up, Greg. If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
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May 8, 2008, 5:20 am PDT

05/08 Is this Marriage Really Over?

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So, Shani's ready to move into her boyfriend's arms? Whose arms will she move into when he quits "meeting her needs"? Listen up, Greg. If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
Greg is her friends husband ewww! so I guess they can cheat on eachother!!!!!!!
 
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May 8, 2008, 1:03 pm PDT

05/08 Is this Marriage Really Over?

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So, Shani's ready to move into her boyfriend's arms? Whose arms will she move into when he quits "meeting her needs"? Listen up, Greg. If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
Shani, you need to wake up and open your eyes to reality and not the dream scene with Greg.  He will tire of you and stray just as he is doing to his wife.  I'm speaking from experience. I do know how many married men play the field ~ cheat on their wife and IF he ends up with you he will do the same to you.   You have three innocent angels whom will bear the hardest burden of the divorce ~ been there and done that so don't waste what you know you have for empty promises.  Greg tripped your trigger because he is a new scene with fancy words plus he makes you feel like your a piece of shinning gold but you're nothing more than an easy traget that he swiped from another man, your Husband.  He'll see another pretty face of a younger age and you'll be his archives.  Think about the boys and NOT yourself when it comes to happiness and the future.
 
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May 8, 2008, 1:12 pm PDT

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So, Shani's ready to move into her boyfriend's arms? Whose arms will she move into when he quits "meeting her needs"? Listen up, Greg. If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
I know personally what Dr. Phil said today is true.  If Shani doesn't give her husband a chance without the newness of her new "boyfriend" out of the picture, she will ALWAYS doubt her decision.  I made a horrible mistake years ago and am still trying to cope.  I saw myself in her and I feel for her.  I know that she is feeling good about the attention she is getting from this new man, but giving up that many years is hard to do.  Splitting up her family will haunt her for ever!  I am now married to the man I left for, and he is WONDERFUL, but I still feel a tremendous amount of guilt.  I wish I had heard this show years ago.  I have two boys and they are so wonderful!  If anything good has come of my doing what I did, it is the fact that my ex-husband spends more quality time with our boys than he ever did before! 
 
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May 8, 2008, 2:53 pm PDT

For Greg

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So, Shani's ready to move into her boyfriend's arms? Whose arms will she move into when he quits "meeting her needs"? Listen up, Greg. If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
My dad had an affair more than 13 years ago.  I want Greg to know that the impact of that affects me to this day.  After the affair broke up my dad was still around and is a very good father.  My parents tried to make their marriage work, but couldn't and they are now divorced.  I'm married now to a wonderful man with 2 children of our own.  I always worry in the back of my mind about my husband and wonder if he would ever do that to me.  I've talked with my husband about it and he knows that I worry about that.  I worry that my husband might love me now, but I don't know how long it will last.  I'm the oldest of 5 kids and I KNOW that my brothers and sister are also STILL affected by this.  As a child of a father who had an affair and my parents divorced, it doesn't EVER go away.  You learn to live with it, but it doesn't ever go way.
 
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May 8, 2008, 3:40 pm PDT

You're so right , Dr. Phil!

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So, Shani's ready to move into her boyfriend's arms? Whose arms will she move into when he quits "meeting her needs"? Listen up, Greg. If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.

Dr. Phil,

You are absolutely right in your advise to Shani and her lover on the phone with your assessment of  the situation today. I commend you for your forthrightness to her regarding her current role as a wife and mother to three boys. It is not just about the two involved in the current affair.

Sincerely

Sherry Birger

 
 
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May 15, 2008, 12:31 am PDT

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So, Shani's ready to move into her boyfriend's arms? Whose arms will she move into when he quits "meeting her needs"? Listen up, Greg. If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you.
Hey there hon, Greggy boy cheated on his wife there too........ So they are both out!!!! Your point there is NOTHING!!!!
 
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