Seriously, I was on your side in the fact that he should be taking care of his kids. I am on your side he should be providing counseling to help them adjust. But if this is the approach you take over the bigger issue then I can see why there is tension there.
Kayla cannot go back to living as a man and apparently you don't understand that. What she has is a very real biological *(Yes biological) disorder that she either takes care of, or she will ed up finding and easier way out.
She is not sick for feeling dysphoric over her gender and yours is the type of attitude that forces people dealing with this to be selfish. If we are selfish for correcting our problem then I have to say that the people expecting us to live in misery are selfish for expecting us to make them happy
You shouldn't look down your nose because of something you don't understand. God doesn't make mistakes is a phrase that people like to throw in our faces constantly to berate us. I don't believe he did make a mistake, he made us who we are. People have diseases and birth defects all the time so tell those people that it was intended for THEM to suffer.
Blame your ex for not paying child support. Blame your ex for not being there for her children. Blame your ex for not getting them logical help to understand it because those are the issues that make it a disgusting situation, not because she is correcting her gender issue in a medically approved way!
