Quote From: simply_linjaNo he has never gotten physical like this before. This was his first time and he prommised me he wouldn't do it ever again. I am healing slowly tho, just from trying my best to not argue and trying to do things to make us happier. I just don't know if this is the right move?
Please see the Marriage/abuse board and ask the ladies over there what their opinion is. You may be surprised at the wealth of information they have on this topic.
You not arguing or upsetting him will not 'right' the issue, he will only gain more power and control over you.
Wishing you the best.
