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July 27, 2008, 7:30 am PDT
Well said..........
Quote From: feistydOk, I realize that the men in this show are less than quality men. But, has anyone thought about how they have been able to continue their behaviour? Is it possible that women need to raise their standards regarding the men they sleep with? How well did these women know these men prior to sleeping with them? These men wouldn't be 'racking up' these kind of numbers and have such an egotistical mentality if women weren't giving them 'the numbers'! And, no I'm not blaming women for the stupid/immature actions/mentality of these men. I'm just saying let's not forget that women have control/responsibility over the activities they participate in as well as men. Possibly, these men (and many others) wouldn't think they were all that and a bag of chips if women required more from men.
Admittedly, I have not seen the show yet... I will later this afternoon. I'm sure the men will prove themselves to be the jerks that they are,but I will be very curious to see if anyone raises the responsibility of the women to know who they are sleeping with and to set standards for the men they permit in their life. OK, this may not sound like the most appropriate thing to say but, it is the electronic age and with shopping channels such as "Shop Erotica" now actually on TV, you don't even have to leave your house to purchase personal products for those times where you have "special" needs. Before a woman gives her body away to a man like this just because she needs "some", good grief, take care of it yourself! Your body is the most special and intimate part of your being, it's not supposed to be given away to every Tom, Dick and Harry that comes along. Have some pride in yourselves. And BTW, when it comes to using condoms to prevent STD's? They don't work for every disease out there! You can still get HPV and Herpes. This will stay with you forever along with the knowledge that you gave yourself away to men who did not deserve you. Men can't rack up these type of numbers if there weren't women willing to let them. Believe it or not, if you don't use it, you won't lose it! There can't possibly be one woman who is so naive to believe that a man who picks her up in a bar, or even on the street for that matter, within only a few minutes and with some very slick lines, will actually be the man of her dreams. This is NOT marriage material and it should be glaringly obvious. But what can I say, this is a time where girls in college are showing everything they have just so they can be in "Girls Gone Wild" videos and be proud of it. Are they going to be so proud when their children get a copy of the video from a friends father's supply? And speaking of this, are you aware that large corporations and law firms, etc. have a database that can find out if you have been in a video such as this? It can cost you that job that you spent so much money and time on getting that degree for. Please, think before you act! Whether it's having sex with the wrong man or lifting your blouse on spring break or Mardi Gras, there may be repercussions to your actions. Think twice before you act.
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