Quote From: mimiskbI totally agree with you. Dr. Phil's question put the blame for her weight gain on the husband, not on the person putting the food in their mouth. The husband can't help whether he is attracted to a heavy woman or not, although he doesn't have to be so ugly about it. She has 2 choices: lose the weight or lose the husband, neither loss sounds like a bad deal.
I think Dr. Phil was trying to point out that she didn't get pregnant on her own. Jared (is that his name?) acted like she got pregnant and fat to spite him, or something.
If Jared "didn't think" that having two babies that close in succession was going to have an impact on her body, then that just proves he's one of many who go about life entirely too ignorant and unlearned. I don't know about her mindset, but he needed to wait until he was more mature before he produced offspring.
I agree Jessica needs to lose weight, although it is highly unlikely she'll ever go back to being 110 pounds. Additionally, if Jared thinks Jessica's stretched abdomen and breasts are going to turn back to the way the were, he has another think coming. If she agrees to have, and if he agrees to pay for painful, possibly dangerous plastic surgery, then maybe she can become his idea of a "dream girl".
I think she should lose the weight AND Jared, unless, of course, he goes through some kind of major personality metamorphosis.
