Replies to 'Differing Sex Drives'

Quote From: sammyd

I have been married for 25 years in October. My husband is one of the controlling kind. Always his way and when, no matter what the subject.  I am the one who takes care of everything around house and all bills. Basically I do everything.  My husband could never get enough sex when we were younger.  Now I am in my early 40's and I can't seem to get enough.  When we do he takes me places I have never been before.  Sex has never been better.  We will have 2 hour love making sessions.  I guess I shouldn't complain.  We do it about 2-3 times a week if not more.  I have just recently gotten these feelings that he is not as interested in me and maybe someone else.  And that I am not as attractive as I once was. I find my self picking apart everything about me.  I look at him and touch him then I want him trying to make him only desire me.  Also, I have no idea if he is interested in someone else. iI am 5ft 3in 108 lbs and exercise almost daily.  I am driving myself crazy.  He says its all in my head  and that he is just tired or stressed. He will talk about how beautiful other women are to me.  What the heck.  It hurts me, he says he is just being honest and thought I could handle it.  Is it ME, am I making more out of this.  Just because he doesn't jump at the chance everytime.  Advice please