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May 16, 2008, 11:42 am PDT
Give me a break
Quote From: bigdon9998I'll make this real short. No person should ever have the right to physically harm another person. When we do this all we are sending is the message that violence can be the solution to a problem. How can that ever be true. As parents, we have to teach our children that there are consequences to actions. a pat on the bottom will not leave a child scarred for life. Beating your child will! I raised my 2 children with love, patience and understanding.....BUT when they turned into little buggers as children can, a spank on the bottom, or hand followed by a proper time out in the middle of the room, teaches children not to mess with mom and dad. boundaries have to be set. and for the most part "talking" to your child only teaches them to do what they wish because all that will happen is a "talking to" and you know how kids tune us parents out. My oldest daughter is graduating from University with a degree in history and my son is working towars being self employed. spanking didnt hurt them, it taught them that mom and dad deserve respect.
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