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May 10, 2008, 2:07 pm PDT
05/12 Sister-in-Law from Hell?
Quote From: sappy28Wow, my mother in law is the same way. I became pregnant at 16. The father and I started fighting alot. So she took it upon her self to tell me not to have any contact with her son until the baby was born. She was the parent so I thought she new what was best. She never told him this happened. Heart broken he started resenting me. Anyway after the our son was born we reconnected. And all our love was still there, so we were trying to get back together. His mother would not have it. She lied and said I was hurting our son, she was saying I was neglecting him. She even said if I moved out on my own she would stop saying these things. So I did, then she called social services on me 5 times. She said if I never had anything to do with her son, then she would stop. She was so basest with wanted him not to like me, we knew she wouldn't stop unless he said he didn't love me. So we put it off for almost 2 years. Seeing and talking only when we knew she would have no idea.
Then she moved away :) And when she found out we moved in together. Well she started with everything again. This all started 13 years ago. And it has calmed down a bit. I just hope she realizes she needs help.
She not only lies about me, she does this with everyone in her life. You don't need to go far to find people who know she is trouble. You could be describing one of my SILs. She is a trouble maker. The whole family knows it, and pretty much ignores her. She has a side where butter could melt in her mouth. She has another side where she deliberately tries to cause trouble with whoever she can. I have a civil relationship with her. I have known her for 35 years and she has always been this way. I can get along with her from a distance. I have never tried to cultivate a close relationship with her. She has often tried to get close to me, telling me I am her favorite SIL and s*** like that. I have always kept my distance. She has been jealous of both of her DILs and has spread terrible lies about them. She has spread slanderous lies about her siblings. Everything is always all about her, somebody has done something to her, etc.... She will probably be this way for the rest of her life.
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