Replies to 'Violence in School'

Im wondering how people in america think.

Scenarios:
1. A boy/girl in my sons/daughters class got in to a fight, so i wont let my children play with him/her. you think "he/she is probably the kind that will grow up to be a school shooter"

Well probably if you parents purposly alienate him and make him unable to learn how to socialize. (sorry about the spelling).  And i go so far as to say that you parents of the children who isnt allowed to play with that kid is highly responible for that kids future! For bad or for worse!!! And from what ive seen on TV (bad source i know) this is an accuring scenario taking place everyday throughout the US. I recomend the movie "Bang bang your dead" for every parent that ever baned their child from playing with another child because he/she is a trouble maker!

2. There was a robbery next door and you decide to get a gun to feel safe

Only in America... 

Only in America are people so scared of everyday life that they cant think logicly.
Only in America is a gun security while every SANE country bans guns or at least get some kind of reasonable restriction.

Quote from the movie *Shoot em up*: "Guns dont kill, but they sure do help"

I want to continue but its getting late. would love some response, criticism or whatever! Give me your view of these matters.