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May 14, 2008, 9:02 am PDT
thank you
Quote From: lilalynnYour husband has a major sickness! I agree with the other person that posted. Get out of this relationship as its unhealthy for both you and your children. I know it's hard to think of going through a divorce, I am going through one now due to my husband cheating. I was a stay at home Mom and have only worked partime for three years and it is scary, but I'll make it and you can too. You need to take care of yourself so you can take care of your children. You don't need to depend on this man, he's just dragging you down further and further. You don't want your children to watch him do this to you, show them you are strong. They can't look to him for example, they are depending on that from you. You will suprise yourself, you can stand on your own two feet. I truly believe that most mothers have an instinct to do whatever they have to do to take care of their children and that's what you need to do. Good luck to you! I really appreciate all this advice!!!! I don't know why i have put up with all this for so long. After reading these posts it has made me feel stronger. ( I hope ) actually i know i can do this. I just applied to drive a school bus, cross your fingers for me. I cant even look at the big jerk!!!and i now know he is the one who's losing everything, not me, hes the stupid one. I don't even know why i have been wasting my time for the last 2 1/2 years what a waste. Its funny,well actually not funny, he has been trying to tell me that his friend ha ha used his phone to text the girl that works at the gym,before i would have tried to believe him but not any more, like i said I'm not the stupid one anymore, he is ,he has no clue what he has lost yet its karma. I never thought about him having a sickness but he is sick so sick. I will pull myself out of all this and i wont let him drag me down any further.You are so right, i don't need to depend on him anymore and my kids need me to set a good example for them. My oldest daughter has asked me many times to get rid of him she cant stand him and i need to show her how strong her mom can be and will be.I can do this and will!!! i am going to tell him what i think of him. I'm sure he doesn't care obviously but it will feel good.
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