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May 15, 2008, 12:31 pm PDT
Other woman!
Quote From: buterfly629Last year my husband left We talked he came back in sept I did not know that he was seeing some else till she knocked on my door, He said it was over a week later he left to leave with her, She is a not a nice person and either was he at the time. IN feb he came back and i let him and he left with a text message.
No in may he saying he thinking of coming home when he come to see his son we all have a good time, but he leave and goes to this women house and her kids . I have told her what he says and she say i am a lier. WHAT ! ok She asked me to back off let them have a life and a family, My inlaws all know what she did emails, breaking in to accounts sending me letters and posting really bad thing on the net. I miss my husband during this time i got sick with cancer and did it alone. I know my husband loves me I can not give up why i want to I urge you to seek outside professional help for yourself ASAP. You need and deserve the support of an unbiased, professional person who can guide you towards the steps needed in order to live a happy, healthy life. Right now, constantly thinking about this man coming back to you or not- that is too stressful! That is something that you have no power/control over at all. Stop putting your focus and energy into hoping and wishing, and begin putting your focus and energy into YOU. Do things that will make you feel good about yourself, find your passion in life. If you do this, you will be leading your child as a positive example. Otherwise, your child will grow up thinking that this is “normal,” for a man to be disrespectful, to go away when he feels like it, and for the woman to simply tolerate it. As a parent myself, I know that you want better for your child; but you are the only one who can be a strong example of what ‘better’ is. I wish you the best!
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