Quote From: jaimie1974I urge you to seek outside professional help for yourself ASAP. You need and deserve the support of an unbiased, professional person who can guide you towards the steps needed in order to live a happy, healthy life. Right now, constantly thinking about this man coming back to you or not- that is too stressful! That is something that you have no power/control over at all. Stop putting your focus and energy into hoping and wishing, and begin putting your focus and energy into YOU. Do things that will make you feel good about yourself, find your passion in life. If you do this, you will be leading your child as a positive example. Otherwise, your child will grow up thinking that this is normal, for a man to be disrespectful, to go away when he feels like it, and for the woman to simply tolerate it. As a parent myself, I know that you want better for your child; but you are the only one who can be a strong example of what better is. I wish you the best!
Thank you I am going to see someone. Its a really bad siution. over the weekend i was with him , we had fun but when i ould bring her up he would get mad. He gult is getting to him,