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July 25, 2008, 10:04 am PDT
not the same thing!
Quote From: marianparoo...more religion to anyone whose abuse was rooted in religion in the first place. You prob don't know this but religion & God are not the same thing. She needs to be in a church that is healthy & thriving and teaching basic bible principle not the church (CULT) she was in...
I have also left a church that had very cultish behaviours. They controlled who I was, what I wore, how I conducted myself, preached against jewelrey, pants, make up & cutting my hair... amongst many other things.
I was in it for 10 years and am glad to finally free of it, BUT I didn't stop going to church because of that experience...
Infact in that church I learnt about God and His great love for me and that's what I knew of when I left them - thus urging me on to find a church that was healthy, that taught me basic bible principles but allowed me to make my own decisions, whether good or bad...
And now I know that I'm healthy, loving God and loving life in a church that builds me up and empowers me to be bold, brave & strong (things I never was before!)
I'm more into God than ever before - even with my short hair, skinny jeans, earrings & make up! Most churches will have flaws but God will never! I go coz I love and serve Him and this lady and her kids can have that too... all the best dear!
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