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May 21, 2008, 8:15 am PDT
yo-yo
Quote From: nafiseGood Day I am despratly need your advice regarding my relationship. about 8 months ago i met a guy in the office which i work. After he asked for date almost everyday we went out with each other.Then after about 4 months he told me that he wanted to marry me and wanted to introduce me to his family.From then his mother objection has been started. Actualy she belives that her son should marry to a girl whom she choses for him not the one he wants(meanwhile he is 29 years old). Any way he struggled with his family for 4 month continually.as his family live in another city for new year he went to visit his family.After he came back he told me that he hesitated about our marriage as he was not sure that we will have happy marriage life in future regarding his family atitute. I told him that u can be alone for a while and think if you want to be in this relationship or not. After 10 days he came back and told me hat he loved me so much ad he can't live alone.we were toghether agian for about a moth till i foun out he was not the same guy which i've met. Again all his childhood dream(which is living alone and just study) came back to him.I tried with all my strenghth to save this relationship but again he asked that it would be better he leaves alone for a moth to think about continuing or spliting up. now i really request to guide me what i should do.Is he reliable or i should break up with him as he cant makes up his mind. Nafiseh It all depends on how long are you willing to wait around for him to decide what he wants? And, you’ve also got to take into consideration that he might decide what he wants, but then he will change his mind again. Don’t make this about HIM, make it about you and what YOU want in life. Do you want to wait around, to be a human, emotional “yo-yo” in this relationship?
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