Quote From: lucky35In the middle of making love, my husband stopped and said, "I don't like it". Since then I haven't had sex with him and I'm thinking of divorce. He said he didn't mean it that way and he just wasn't in the mood. He has since tried to have sex with me, but I refuse. How can I forgive and forget such a terrible statement like that and move on with him or not!
it was very insensitive of your husband to do what he did. im sorry you had to go through that. i hear the same reasoning from my husband of "i didnt mean it that way"; perhaps your husband cant express himself properly or appropriately. It is understandable after this thoughtless comment you do not "feel in the mood".
As far as forgiving goes, this is what worked for me; early in our marriage after a "problem", although he was sad he had hurt me and was tiptoeing around, i decided what i needed to "forgive", and made it know to my husband..... once he took the steps to show his remorse, I forgave him and let it go.
Good luck to you and take care
